We all agree that guys are different from girls and that they often act in a manner that confuses girls. And many girls wonder about what guys like in girls so that they can up their game in a bid to attract a boy. There are certain things that flow from your personality that guys like and that triggers attraction and these include

1. Looking good! Discard the ill-fitting clothes and the over made up eyes that give you a eerie look. Determine what compliments your body and put that on and get assistance from contacts, families or stylists to help you pep up your image.

2. Having good manners! Can you share the limelight with other people? Or do you have to hog the limelight? Are you a repellant, noisy and attention seeking? Must you have uproar around you so that you can feel good about yourself?

3. Treating him well! But don’t under any circumstances worship at his feet. Very few people can respect, let alone like, anyone who waits on them hand and foot. Instead be nice but ambiguous so that you convey your respect for him and for yourself.

4. Not crying at the drop of every complaint! Relax! everything said is not about you! No one wants to be around any person who is always hurt each and every meaningless observation and who have crying fits frequently.

5. Accepting praise politely! But do not search around for them as guys are often obliged to be economical with the truth not to hurt the feelings of a girl who fishes. The famous “Does my bum look big in this?”Comes to mind…what is a pleasant guy expected to say when your bum does look big in it? Accept whatever kind words you are given with grace and genuine gratitude. Don’t get puffed up about it but receive the compliment and move on. Do not disregard it or try to explain it away. Guys like girls whose self esteem is high enough so they can accept compliments courteously!

6. Steer clear of striving to constrain him! Yes you do not like his friends etc but we do not like anyone who is obnoxious enough to want to change us.

7. Straight talk! Guys are not big on multitasking and in following a never ending flow of talk so they simply tune you off or get really frustrated trying to listen. Say what you mean and with as few words as possible so that you don’t lose him. Save the roundabout explanations for your girl pals who enjoy such details.

8. Stop the constant complaints! You may have a lot of beef with life and a number of peoplebut whining about it will not endear you to anyone. Find a way to deal with your issues without dumping them on him! If you feel that life does not give you any breaks…do you think that harping on that regularly will make you attractive to him?

9. Respecting others! Backstabbing and back biting others as well as putting them down will not endear you to him to him! The plan may be to exalt yourself in his eyes by making the competition look bad but you will come off as fixated on yourself, spiteful and bitter…all unappealing traits.

10. Being right always! Admitting that you are wrong when you are wrong is not a failing it shows your inner strength. This does not mean that you crumple even when you are right but it does mean that you should be confident enough in your worth to admit when you are wrong.

11. Lying! Do you tell lies to build yourself in the eyes of other people if your live seems too ordinary? Lies are a vicious cycle as you have to continue lying and you have to remember your previous lies. A task that is hard and if you attract a guy it’s not really you that he likes but the ‘pretend’ you. Lies are the worst basis for any lasting relationship as they tend to crumble quickly!

12. Not holding grudges. You need to let go of an issue once you have dealt with or are you of the “I will never forgive you as long as I live” type of people who become progressively more embittered the longer they live?

If these things can become a part of you then you will have no problem finding the right guy!