Here are a couple online dating tips that can spice up your matchmaking and open up new doors of opportunities. Yes, these tips apply to both online dating and the real world of offline dating.

Looks Count
Comment on how attractive she is. Yes, women like to hear they are pretty, even if they’re online and you can’t see them and have no idea. So in your communications, ask questions that would help you know, but in an unobtrusive way like – how do you wear your hair? And then say how attractive that must look.

Kindness Counts
Point out nice things or the lemonade in life – nice things the other person has mentioned, nice acts the person has done, good things on the news lately, etc. Be upbeat, and forget about the lemons in life. Show good manners and kindness in your online communications. Even in email a person can shout, by using all capital letters, which should be avoided. Keep swearing, unkind remarks, prejudice, etc. out of your communications. And “do unto others….”

You’ll be amazed at the positive results these tips can add to your online dating experience. Keep on the positive side of romance – and enjoy more lemonade!