Going Up To Groups Of Girls

Going up to a group of women can be pretty damn intimidating. We’ve all be out and seen a stunning girl surrounded by her friends, like a pack of animals. It doesn’t take a lot of guts for a group comprising of you and your friends to go over. Trying it alone is another issue altogether .

There is hope, however. I won’t guarantee you’ll hit it off with every group of women, but if you act a specific way, you stand a much better shot of not getting turned down. The only relatively sure-fire way to go over to women in groups is to be confident. Which of course, sucks for those of us who are not confident. To truly cultivate a strong belief of self-confidence check out How to Approach Women.

Ditch the routines for the moment. If you don’t walk the walk, the walk being confidence, they you’ll most definitely strike out when it comes to approaching those girls. However, if you can’t walk over to girls until you’ve got confidence, this begs the question, ‘How do I get confidence?’ Sadly, there’s no magic pill. You’ve just got to do it. There are a few methods I used to get better at developing my confidence.

You can do a mixed bag, approach men and girls. The real question is where. I found great success approaching girls in the mall. Think about it, most women aren’t in their ‘clubbing’ or ‘bar’ mode when they go, so they’ll be more likely to talk to you. The technique is easy to get. However, before I detail it to you, you should check this out: An Overlooked Aspect of Seduction. It’s something I wrote on body language, it should help your approach.

Now then, on to the strategy I used. First, remember this: never walk over to women from behind. It freaks them out. Simply enough, you just meander around the building and smile at women. Try not to be creepy about it. That’s all it takes to being. There are few things more simple. Next, say ‘hi’. It’s the start of any convo. If she stops to chat, great, if not, continue on. I’ll point out a great place to find what you should say in a moment.

Don’t torture yourself up if she doesn’t respond well, she could just be having a horrible day. Don’t get negative, this simple technique is really effective, provided you back it up with body language and good conversation skills. Do this enough, and you’ll find approaching easy.

I hoped you gained some valuable insight from this article. I’ve put together another piece on how to speak to women that you can read. Interested? Well then check out Tips for Talking to Women.