Your Personality Is The Most Attractive Thing

I got an important question from one of my students I am coaching, and he said that he was worried about the size of his nose. What was sad was that he thought that his “big nose” made him ugly. Unfortunately for him, the size of his nose gave him very low self esteem.

This is a huge problem for men and just kills our game.

We just don’t understand the situation. Complex but simple at the same time. The key here is to understand that my reply will solve a lot of problems guys have with women: and yes this is huge.

It is my belief that this situation is the most damaging to men who want women in their lives but haven’t had success for this very reason.

Please take 5 minutes and read my reply.

This was my advice and solution to his problem:

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Hello W,

Your question is really important, and most men find this a huge sticking point whether it’s the size of their nose, ethnicity, money status and the like.

It’s pernicious and men let it destroy any chances they have with women that they deserve because there is a lack of understanding of what do women find attractive in men. This is a sore issue for mst men out there but it doesn’t have to be.

Let me address this important issue and get rid of it for good once and for all.

This is the most important issue for the health of you personality: if you belive you have a flaw you are right–if you don’t believe you have a flaw you are right too.

Onwards.

First, think about Shrek, Cyrano, Lord Byron, and Casanova.

Byron had a club-foot, Cassanova was ugly, and Shrek, well you know about him.

Shrek got the girl, Lord Byron was a master with women, and Cassanova was a consummate rake.

I will give you a “today”example:

I invite you to do a google search on a congressmen, Dennis Kucinich. He’s the man. First, take a look at the guy; he’s not good looking at all, but he has a hot wife that is half his age. She’s a whole head taller than him! It’s his personality she’s attracted to!

Kucinich and all had all attractive personality. The focus of your time is to develop your personality; what I call innergame.

Your personality is the key point that women will look at. WOmen will still pay attention to your fashion and hygiene: yes. There is no doubt here that hygiene and fashion are big things a woman looks at, but personality is king.

Women are just so forgiving about a man’s looks. The lucky thing for us is that women do not judge us for our looks as we do to them. Wrong wrong wrong!

Don’t beat yourself up here. Women will sleep with a good looking man, but if he doesn’t have a personality they will split. You personality is far more of an attraction switch than your looks. The same will result if you have good l;ooks or not, but if your personality is magnetic, you’re golden.

Further . . . .

Kurgan’s Law Of Attraction:

A man’s value comes from within–a woman by contrst comes from the outside in (looks).

Your personality is far more attrative to a woman than your looks which answers what do women find attractive.

Your fear of the size of your nose scars your attractiveness to women because it makes you insecure.

So, ironically, it’s your perception of your nose, not the physicality of your nose, that will make you unattractive to women.

A negative physical mental perception causes a flaw in your personality that women will not find attractive. So the secret thus to what do women find attractive: a confident man wouldn’t care, and that confidence is what she is attracted to.

Just work on your personality through your life-style, confidence, and passions of your life. As women are important, make your life more important that them. These are the essential keys.

Accept and be you. Have love for yourself. There is no flaw in the way you were born, period. You can’t control what nature gave you, so embrace it and be the a great person that you really are without making any apologies for the way you are physically.

This knowledge allows you to finally “be yourself.”