online dating has become very popular recently and for good reason… because it works or, at least, it can work. For the most part, women seem to be terrified of meeting a man that she has been chatting with online. They’ve heard so many scary things that can happen and, they certainly should be careful. That’s not only wise but also vital. So what’s a nice guy to do? You aren’t a pervert, a sexual predator, or a weirdo. You are just a nice guy looking for the girl for you.

You must be patient.
Don’t press her for personal information like her real name or where she lives. You want to keep your conversations light and fun until she feels comfortable chatting with you online. And, don’t try to rush her into a face-to-face meeting. She will think you are desperate or a pervert. Patience. Patience. Patience.

Be honest
Be absolutely honest about your physical appearance and what you do for a living. Lies and deceit have never been a good foundation for a good relationship. The truth will eventually be revealed and you’ll lose any credibility you’ve built leaving you back to square one.

Include your photo
A picture really is worth a thousand words. Post lots of pictures of yourself doing your everyday activities and make them full body shots, not just head shots. If you were dating a girl in the real world she wouldn’t just see your head.

Meeting face-to-face
When you do reach the point of talking about meeting face-to-face for the first time, suggest that you meet in a public place, during daylight hours and encourage her to bring a friend with her. After all, you have nothing to hide. You’ve told her the truth about yourself and she has already seen a lot of pictures of you. The only thing left is to make her feel safe meeting you.

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