It won’t come as any surprise to hear that cool guys get the girls. I’m sure you were already able to make the connection. Back in school, I bet the guy who had the girls all over him was the coolest guy on the planet. He might have been good looking, he might’ve been great at sports, he might’ve even been a brainiac, but who knows. All those things don’t matter when it comes to attracting women.

Sure, logically, a guy who is good looking and excels at sport may seem to be the kind of guy who gets all the girls, but it’s not so. This is because attracting women is not logical, it’s all about the emotions. Make a woman feel right and she’s all yours. Stuff it up and, well you know what happens then.

So if being cool is a key ingredient to attracting women, how does one “become” cool? I have done a bit of thinking about this, so I hope I can distill it down for you. To work out what cool guys had in common, I thought back to some of the cool guys I have known over the years.

And it wasn’t easy finding these commonalities. Some of the guys I knew were really loud and outgoing, while others were more reserved. So your level of extrovertness isn’t necessarily a factor.

Humor isn’t necessarily a factor either. I knew some really funny cool guys, but others weren’t all that funny at all. So scratch that off the list as well.

What I did discover was that they all seemed to have a lack of insecurities. They just didn’t care what other people thought or said about them. I guess you could call a lack of insecurities high self esteem, but whatever you call it, I think that is the key to being cool.

So if that’s what the definition of the coolest guy in australia, how do you set about becoming cool, if you are the biggest dweeb on the planet? Well, I think the key there lies in the definition. If being cool means having no insecurities, then you need to find a way to get rid of these insecurities.

Whether it’s a matter of getting into shape, or learning how to dress well or whatever, you need to first work out what’s holding you back, then figure out a way to address the insecurity.

Once you have done this successfully, you will most certainly be on the road to becoming coolest guy on the planet.